Withdrawing-removing yourself from the relationship

One of the early actions that damage a marriage, is that of withdrawing. When one spouse withdraws, the other often reacts to it.  When this happens, the spouses often feel like they are going through the motions of a relationship, yet their heart is not in it. In order to make things work, the hearts of both spouses will need to be in the relationship. When both of your hearts are in the relationship, you will find yourself actually looking forward to talking with you spouse instead of dreading or avoid it. When both parties are fully engaged, you mind will not be wandering off onto other subject or people. There is a principle here that you will get out of the relationship what you put into it. As you work on engaging more, you will find that you will enjoy it more. When you withdraw, you will likely find that you are enjoying you spouse less than you did at a previous time.

If you have withdrawn yourself, repairing the relationship requires that you re-engage in the relationship. Although you spouse may question your motives for doing so. if they discern that you truly are seeking to re-engage without alternative purposes, you will find that there is a new enjoyment in the relationship.

Best Regards,

Jeff Murrah

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