Unhealthy Thinking

Unhealthy thinking and affairs often go hand in hand. Although it is unclear whether the unhealthy thinking comes first or the affair comes first, what is clear is that they often appear together. The unhealthy thinking and affair behavior often feed off one another. In the “Affair Recovery System”, the issue is addressed in more detail.

One of the most flagrant forms of unhealthy thinking that I encounter with couples is the thought “Sex is the most important aspect of my life”. This thought is one of the foundational thoughts behind sexual addiction. (Patrick Carnes deals with many of these in his books on sexual addicitons.) This line of thinking often leads people to make poor decisions, engage in affairs, damage their marriage and a host of other problems. In other words, this kind of thinking is sick. It often leads to an unhealthy emphasis on sex. The flagrant advertising of sexual products based on exploiting fears of inadequacy drive keep such thinking going. This kind of thinking is destructive to relationships, creating a selfish demanding atmosphere that destroys the spirit of the marriage and often drives the spouses to consider affairs as an option. The affair may gratify the sexual drives, but it does not gratify the need to be loved.

For other ways to deal with affairs, prevent them and heal your relationship, purchase the “Affair Recovery System”.

Best Regards,

Jeffrey Murrah

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