Physics and affairs

Have you ever considered the connection between physics and affairs? If you are like me, you probably have not. When affairs are examined in terms of physics, you come to some startling new conclusions. First in order to have more of a substance, you have to start with some of the same substance. In the case of cheaters, they want ‘happiness.’ In order to have more happiness, you need to have some to start with. The reality is you can not start with all negative emotions, such as feeling trapped, miserable or suffocated and somehow magically transform those negative states into ‘happiness.’ The addition of sex may do many things, but the math of:

Feeling Miserable + Affair Sex = Happiness

Does not add up. When most cheaters seek an affair, it is not because they are already happy. If they had an affair due to being happy, the equation would look like this:

Feeling Happy + Affair Sex = More Happiness

Although in terms of physics, this equation makes more sense, in terms of relationships, it is not typical. Few cheaters have affairs due to them being totally happy in their marriage. In the recovery community they use the saying “Nobody leaves a good lover.” When applied to affairs, if a spouse is totally happy with the marriage and all aspects, they would not go looking for an affair.

Although cheaters talk like an affair makes them happy. The physics do not work. Starting with feeling miserable and then adding in affair sex is not going to actually make them happy. They may tell you that they are happy, or that the affair makes them happy, but it is not possible. They may feel contented, or satisfied or relieved, but that is not happiness.

As a variable, ‘Affair Sex’ either adds something the equation or multiplies what was already there before the affair. It can intensify feelings, but it can not create something that is not there. Also, for the lover, it is not likely that they are going along with the affair since they are such happy people either. They may be desperate, horny, excitable or bored, which is no where near happiness. They may be flattered or excited about the affair. If they have not had much happiness in their life, they may mistake excitement for happiness, but they are not the same thing. So even if the lover did bring some happiness to the equation, it is not enough to make the cheater and the lover both happy in the true sense of the word.

The bottom line is that when you look at affairs in terms of the physics behind it, an affair can not produce happiness. When the cheater tells you that, they are either lying or out of touch with their own emotions.

Best Regards,

Jeff Murrah

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