Are Cheaters Hypocrites?
An article in PsyPost caught my attention with the title “Study finds that cheaters are hypocrites when it comes to judgments about infidelity”. The title is definitely edgy. The
Escape From Intimacy
The first time I witnessed the ‘flight from intimacy‘ involved a grown man running from others attempting to get close to him. He ran from anyone getting close to
Trauma Bonds and Affairs
A couple of years ago, I produced a special report on trauma bonds for members of the Restored Lifestyle membership site I had. Although I thought about the report
The Unspoken Truths of Building a Modern Family
After one of my emails on blended families and remarriage triggered some reactions, I knew it was important to clear a few things up about blended families. Since there
Affair Partners are Losers
When a reader inquired about how affair partners are losers, it grabbed my attention. The more I considered their point, the more I realized they were onto something. Let’s
Soul-Sucking Liars
It’s frustrating dealing with lying. After being lied to repeatedly you’re unsure what to believe and what to disbelieve. Life with the person lying to you becomes a guessing
How to Rebuild Your Marriage in the Shadow of Workplace Affairs
The 18th century writer Sir Walter Scott is credited with the quote “Oh, what a tangled web we weave, when first we practice to deceive”. That line is actually
How Overthinking from Infidelity Anxiety Paralyzes Both the Betrayed and the Betrayer
In talking with people about their concerns, I become aware of trends impacting the public. One of the trends that I’ve been encountering lately is overthinking. Those experiencing overthinking
How Unchecked Desires Morph into Monstrous Affairs and Steal Your Peace of Mind
You’ve likely heard someone remark “He’s a monster!” When I hear the remark, I don’t immediately imagine sharp pointed teeth, claws or them breathing fire, even though some monsters
Discover the Early Affair Warning Sign That’s More Crucial Than Trust
Although the top concern expressed by couples regarding affairs is ‘trust’, my findings indicate it should be something else. There is an early warning signal indicating trouble that happens