If You're Reeling from the Devastating Effects of Your Partner's Affair,
Here's How to Sort Through Your Feelings and Take Control of Your Emotions...

"Get Your Hands on this Veteran Counselor's Latest Ebook and STOP the Pain of Infidelity ...and Heal Your Shattered Sense of Self"

"When I Found Out My Husband Michael Had Been Having an Affair,
I Literally Felt My Heart Shatter into a Million Pieces...
After 17 Years of Marriage, I Can't Believe He Could Do This to Me, to Our Family! Now I Feel Like a Washing Machine of Emotions -
Anger, Betrayal, Deep Disappointment, Depression..
I Just Want to Stop the Pain But I Don't Know If I Can Ever Forgive Him..."

From: Jeffrey D. Murrah
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Tuesday, 11:47am

It was heart wrenching...

Even after 23 years of counseling couples through the effects of one partner's extramarital affair, it was still heart wrenching to see the total devastation that Michael's affair had had on his wife Leah.

A charming, attractive woman in her early 40's, on the outside it seemed like Leah had everything going for her...

But on the inside she felt emotionally bankrupt.

Things had always been good between them.

She felt she'd been a good partner and a supportive, loving wife for the 17 years they'd been together - so what had happened?

I still remember both of them stepping through the door for their first session at my family practice in Houston Texas. With her husband Michael sitting next to her with his head in his hands, Leah told me through her tears...

"It Feels Like I've Been Emotionally Sucker Punched
in the Deepest Part of My Soul"

Leah shared that ever since she'd found out about Michael's affair, she felt like she was going crazy.

One moment she'd feel like she wanted to punch him in the face. The next, she'd feel lost in a limbo of complete hopelessness and despair. Moments later, she'd feel nothing at all - just total numbness.

And worst of all, Leah couldn't stop thinking about him in the arms of another woman.

Her self-esteem had taken a massive beating and emotionally she was spinning out of control. She felt completely defeated.

Every time they tried to talk about the affair and their relationship, things always erupted into an angry yelling match. Michael wanted to patch things up and move on.... Leah didn't feel heard and couldn't fathom how she'd ever be able to trust him again...

And the suffering and pain just seemed to go on and on.

When they came to me, they were days away from filing for divorce.

Fast Forward Just One Month Later...

Leah gave me a very sweet thank you card that I still have on my book shelf.

The inside reads:

If you too find yourself in the difficult place of trying to cope with your partner's affair, here's what I want you to know:

There IS a way out of your pain.

My name is Jeffrey D. Murrah and I'm a Licensed Professional Counselor, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, and a Certified Medical Psychotherapist.

For the past two-and-a-half decades, I've specialized in helping couples overcome the devastating effects of extramarital affairs at my family and couples counseling practice in Houston, Texas.

I feel truly blessed to have been able to help thousands of couples go from absolute hopelessness and the brink of divorce to healing, trust, and renewed intimacy.

(Even when they flat out told me reconciliation was NOT possible.)

After 26 years of counseling men and women who find themselves in the exact same situation that you are in now, I can tell you this with absolute certainty:

Regardless of whether you choose to save your relationship or not, the next steps you take will make ALL the difference in how quickly you heal yourself from this truly devastating situation...

The Important Next Steps to Navigating Though the Pain
and Healing Your Shattered Sense of Self

For most people, finding out that your partner has had an affair is like being in a bad dream that you can't seem to wake up from.

Chances are your feelings are swirling.

One moment, you feel intense anger... the next you're beating yourself up and berating yourself... the next moment you feel nothing.... and then you find yourself missing him or her and wondering if things could ever go back the way they could be.

It's important to know that finding out that your partner has had an affair plays on the deepest, most primal fears a human being has: fear of abandonment, fear of loss, fear of not being good enough.

The first important step to processing your feelings and regaining a sense of control over your emotions is knowing and accepting that your physical pain, anxiety attacks and crippling depression does NOT mean you are going crazy.

In fact, these emotions are very human and very normal - and they are actually necessary for your recovery and healing!

It's normal and natural and healthy to react with anger when someone has hurt you.

But there is something you need to ask yourself...

The Question You Need to Answer for Yourself
Right Here and Right Now

There is no doubt - life has handed you a raw deal.

Your partner has had an affair. And no matter what was happening in your marriage at the time, this is a choice that he or she made - and now YOU are left to deal with the gut-wrenching consequences.

Many of the men and women I've counseled tell me they feel as though the pain and despair feels unbearable, truly agonizing, and unlike anything they've ever felt before.

But right now, you have a question to answer for yourself...

How are you going to handle this situation right here and right now?

If you choose to stifle your feelings and shove them down or ignore them in an effort to cope... if you choose to run away from the situation... if you refuse to communicate with your partner about what has happened... you are only doing long term damage to yourself.

I implore you - don't allow these emotions to fester and build up scar tissue around your heart, scar tissue that will drip pain, resentment, and disappointment into your life forever like a defective faucet.

I've seen what this kind of damage can do over time, and I don't want that for anyone.

Instead, I urge you to take a different approach...

To give yourself the gift of a proven step-by-step affair recovery program that will help you understand and process your emotions... and cleanse you of your feelings of worthlessness, confusion, and resentment... and regain a sense of personal power as quickly as possible.

After Helping Thousands of Couples Navigate
the Emotional Fall Out of One Partner's Affair, I Soon Realized Something Crucially Important...

While the details of extramarital affairs vary from couple to couple, there is a series of essential steps that - if taken in the right sequence - will help you ACCELERATE the emotional healing and recovery process.

In the years since then, I've successfully taken thousands of couples through this Affair Recovery System, and it's helped to steer them out of despair and towards emotional health and happiness QUICKLY time and time again.

And this is the helping hand I'd like to offer to you now.

The Step-by-Step Affair Recovery System PROVEN to Accelerate the Healing Process By Months, Even YEARS

The Affair Recovery System is a one-of-a-kind guide in which I've laid out each step of my tried and tested affair recovery system that I've used for decades to help people just like you through some of the darkest days of their lives.

Inside this 64-page Instant Download you'll discover the precise steps necessary to cope with your powerful emotions, heal your wounded heart, and even heal your relationship if you choose to salvage it.

Here's a sample of the kind of information you'll receive:

Step #1: How to Sort Through Your Feelings and Take Control of Your Emotions

	How to Make Sense of Your Emotions, cope with the intense pain you're feeling, and treat yourself with LOVE and RESPECT that is so essential for you during this difficult time.
	What to Do When You See RED and You Feel Like Lashing Out - Feeling and expressing anger is healthy, but doing or saying hurtful or even violent things to temporarily relieve the pain is destructive and will only hurt YOU more in the long run. I'll tell you how to cope.
	The Secret to Soothing Feelings of Shame and Severe Inadequacy - I'll teach you simple, yet incredibly effective techniques for conquering even the most overpowering feelings of insecurity and low self worth.
	What to Do When You Feel Spiritually Shipwrecked - How to get ground and emotionally anchor yourself when you start feeling fragmented into a million little pieces. (This is a natural reaction for many people in this situation.)
	Plus more step-by-step strategies to help you work through your feelings and maintain good emotional health during this difficult time!

Step #2: How to Regain Your Sense of Self-Worth and Personal Power

	The 3 Specific Types of Affairs... and they are not what you may think! (These distinctions will help clear the fog from around your particular situation and will empower you to start on the path to true, lasting healing.)
	Understanding Why the Affair Happened, so that you can accept the past for what it is, know that you cannot change it, and release yourself from being continuously emotionally tormented by it.
	How to "Cleanse" Your Mind of Negative Images - Do you find your mind racked with thoughts of your spouse in the arms of someone else? You CAN free yourself from these negative images and thoughts, and I'll show you how to do it.
	The Steps to Rebuilding Your Self-Esteem... How to eliminate your nagging feelings of worthlessness, depression, and paranoia and restore your self-confidence and personal power.
	Silencing the "Unanswerable Questions" - Even though most people know the affair was their partner's choice and not their fault, most still struggle with paranoid thoughts like "What could I have done to stop this from happening?" or "Am I not good enough sexually?" I'll walk you through how to silence this negative brain chatter.
	Plus more in-depth steps designed to help you take back control of your life!

Step #3: How to Communicate Clearly and Effectively with Your Spouse

	How to Talk About the Affair Without Making Matters Worse. It's downright essential that you both discuss the details of the affair... but there IS a way to do it without one of both of you launching into "attack and defend" mode. I'll tell you how to navigate this minefield while preserving your emotional health.
	When to Talk and When to Walk Away and Take a Break. You are human and so is your spouse, and it's natural that despite your best intentions, there will be times when it makes sense to end a potentially hurtful conversation to protect your relationship from further harm.
	The 5 Communication "Pit Falls" - Fall into just one of these black holes and you'll likely end up in a raging screaming match with your spouse. I'll tell you how to protect yourself from this quick sand so you can keep the lines of communication open, even when you're both feeling at your wit's end.
	What a "Museum Trip" in Communication Is... and why you should avoid taking one at all costs. (Nothing good comes from going down this path. In fact, many marriages end in divorce for this very reason.)
	How to Use "Visual Wording" to Bypass Your Partner's Defenses - Employ this simple strategy and you'll be amazed at how easily your questions, comments, fears, and hopes touch their heart and create a sense of instant intimacy.
	The Powerful "Two-Sentence Rule"... My last chance "fail safe" strategy for quickly disarming even the most HEATED conversation! Once you have this technique in your corner, you'll never have to worry about seeing a conversation disintegrate into slamming doors and the silent treatment again.
	And this barely scratches the surface!

And if you choose to save your marriage...

Step #4: How to Establish the Ground Work for Creating a New Trust-Filled Partnership

	How to Open the Lines of Communication - In this pivotal step, you'll discover how to lay the ground work for a conversation that will leave you and your spouse feeling listened to and validated... instead of blamed and shut down.
	Exploring Forgiveness Without Feeling Like You're "Giving In." Many people are hesitant to forgive. But forgiveness isn't about issuing your partner a blanket "pardon" or saying that was they did was acceptable... it IS a necessary step to put an end to your own emotional torture and start re-establishing intimacy.
	How to Work Together to Re-Establish Faith, Loyalty, and Trust. The key to rebuilding trust between you is complete and absolute transparency. I'll show you how to create it in your marriage in a way that leaves you both feeling closer than you ever thought possible - even BEFORE the affair.
	What to Do When You Feel Suspicious - Keep silent and you'll most likely demolish any progress you've made. I'll tell you how to broach this subject with your spouse and ask him or her for what you need to restore your sense of trust on a dime.
	The Secrets to Creating a Renewed, Bullet Proof Marriage - I'll walk you through how to gently uncover what (if anything) was missing in your marriage, so that you can add it in and affair-proof your marriage for life.
	Restoring Your Sex Life - Many couples who choose to stay and salvage their marriages experience a lot of anxiety when it comes time to rekindle their sex lives. I'll tell you how to let your partner in and enjoy physical intimacy again without having flashbacks to the affair.
	Plus many more marriage-saving strategies PROVEN to help you heal your wounds and rebuild a sense of trust and security with your partner.

Regardless of whether you choose to go through the Affair Recovery System with your spouse or on your own...

This Proven Step-by-Step System is the
"Life Line" You've Been Praying For

There are several reasons why people just like you choose not to go into couples counseling to deal with the fall out from one person's affair.

Sometimes one partner wants to go but the other doesn't.

Other times a couple isn't sure if they want to save their marriage, and they mistakenly believe that counselors like me are only here to try and force them to stay together.

Some simply can't afford private counseling that runs upwards of $200 per hour...

Or they feel too proud to seek it out even though they are immersed in one of the most challenging, emotionally suffocating experiences of their lives!

I've witnessed first hand the prolonged devastation and depression that people go through trying to deal with the crisis of an extramarital affair on their own...

And I don't want "I can't afford it" or "I need to protect my pride" to stop YOU from getting access to the kind of quality guidance and support that is so PIVOTAL in helping you move through this painful experience and onwards towards emotional health and happiness.

That's why I've decided to offer you the opportunity to get the Affair Recovery System, the exact same steps I've developed and used in my private couples counseling practice for the past 26 years, for the low one-time investment of just $29.95

I'll Also GIVE You My Invaluable Parenting Guide:
"How to Protect Your Children in an Affair"

Most people who find themselves dealing with a spouse's affair experience a "washing machine" of emotions - anger, resentment, deep disappointment, sadness, and depression.

You are most likely having enough difficulty trying to manage your own emotions and keep on top of your day-to-day routine to then add on the stress of protecting your children's emotional health.

But as you probably already realize, children are very sensitive and they'll sense when something isn't "right" at home.

If you shut your children out or avoid talking to them about what has happened - even if your intention is to protect them - your children will become confused and frustrated. And if this is left ignored, there's a very good chance that they'll either withdraw into themselves or act out and get into trouble to try and cope with the tension at home.

It's a sad fact that children are often left more scarred by parents who refuse to talk to them about what happened.

But many parents find themselves asking:

• "How does this affair affect my children?"
• "Should I talk about the affair with them?"
• "What details do I tell my children and what do I need to protect them from?"
• "I am so angry with my partner - how do I avoid subjecting my children to that?"

You need to include them in what's happened, but obviously you want to protect them from the sordid details of what happened, and my 20-page Instant Download eBook "How to Protect Your Children in an Affair" will show you how to do precisely that.

This report has an additional $27 value, but I'm including it for you today for free.

The Next Steps You Take Will Determine How
Quickly You Heal Your Heart...

Whether you want to save your marriage or not, what you need during a time like this is a system to help ground you, be your rock, and guide you through the crucial next steps you need to cope with your feelings, protect your emotional well being, and communicate with your spouse.

The Affair Recovery System contains my 26 years of experience in what WORKS when it comes to making sense of your powerful emotions, accelerating your healing process, and my step-by-step guide to healing your relationship if you choose.

Don't do this alone. I implore you - let me help you navigate the sea of your emotions and soothe the pain you're feeling now.

Give yourself the gift of a proven system that I guarantee will steer you towards emotional healing and happiness. Click on the link below to go to my secure order form now:

To your well being,

Jeffrey D. Murrah, LMFT

From: Jeffrey D. Murrah
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Houston, Texas

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